Experience is
believed to be the best teacher but what if you keep going through the same
thing over again despite having been messed up by what you have gone through,
it is a question that is open and am sure many people find themselves in this
state. Picture a spouse who is constantly being abused by the latter and still
holds on to what seems like an everlasting tormenting commitment with someone
who does not show signs of turning a new leaf or a person who frequently finds
themselves in compromising situations that put them in grave danger regardless
of the fact that they know the circumstances that put them there in the first place
before it already happens.
Maybe it’s an addiction of some sort or
acting forces beyond our control but such humility and constant repetition in a
person’s life is cause for alarm. Personally have done and experienced things I
swore never again to go through yet I keep finding myself in the same situation
all over again. Can’t really explain reasons behind this, but one thing I do
know is by the end of it all, the only thing I want is not to go through it
again.
Perhaps am being too rigid in embracing changes
in my life resorting to the simple normal daily routine that am used and
comfortable with something that exposes me to the same situations. Changes are
bound to happen whether I like it or not and so the best thing for me is to be
prepared thus once they happen I know exactly how to react and accommodate them.
Desperation is another factor which
blinds individuals into believing that the immediate solution is the only
alternative to what they desire in life. Taking time to explore all the options
is critical when you find yourself in such a situation since rushing into
things my later on lead to regrets. Patience is another thing of which am
working on and am sure in the long run I will be in a position to make the right
choices and predict a disappointment brewing to happen thus avoid the whole
drama of experiencing it.
Whatever the kind of situations we find
ourselves in despite having gone through them once or twice, moving on is
something critical and if it helps it doesn’t stress to take notes. A constant
reminder of past mistakes will keep you alert on things happening around you
and we should not limit ourselves to them, in fact they are the ones that bring
out the greatness locked within us once we overcome and learn how to avoid
them.
